Perhapse the person you have tried to care for had been disappointed by you. Trust plays the biggest part when it comes to care. Did you ever ask yourself why someone would be kind to share their heart to heart secret with you? Then again, why someone been sharing their hearts with you no longer do so? The answer is Trust. What makes you think you correctly cared? Answer is being supportive.

Like parents trusting their children. Everyone have different point of views and even parents often misunderstood their children. If your parents blames you for something they had misunderstood and being harsh on you, The child will feel alone, can’t express him/herself and evantually lost faith on the parents and will close his/her heart towards them. Because disappointment makes a person lose trust…

Be thankful and treasures every words someone share with you, it can be the most inside secret or feelings he/she want to share, express and maybe a hint to seek help and because he/she trusted you that is why you are choosed to tell or discuss. Even you do not understand or could not feel exactly, at least show your care by giving trust and support. You may not help but you were there to support. That is more than enough for the needy, then to tried to help and evantually the wrong medicine applied causes greater damages. When trust been lost, a relationship come to a closing.

When a person come to you yet does not receive proper care and his/her feeling had been hurt by the helper’s ego. Trust may also been damage and perhaps destroy. will there be a second visit? second chance may be given but taken for gunted then there will never be a third.

The helper is important but isn’t the one who seek help/care are most in the concerns/important?

True communication cannot be request. It all starts from ownself. To be able to have pure communication, you must first trust who you wish to communicate, be supportive, and understand how he/she feels. An old saying ,’when you want to know how a person think, put yourself in his/her position/situation’. And last of all, whatever you suggest can only be advice to him/her so never force someone to do what you said. You are trying to help, not forcing to obey, or given up and ignored.

If you don’t know how to show your care, then show your supoort. and just simply trust he/she truely suffers from an awful situation. When you did your part, the person who need help will evantually feels he/she isn’t lonely and will start to accept your aids or advice.

Life have been fair to everyone by repeating vacious events just to help us correct our mistakes, to teach us a lesson so we can get to the next level. Pay attention and you will see so much familiar problems repeating itselves around you, If you didn’t learn the right thing and do it right, then keep learning, life speaks.

Wish you good luck. Treasure friends / lover who speak true to you, they are the ones who will always give you a hand and care for you the most. These people often being chased away by your silly and foolishness. When they are gone, they will not return. Be it surrounded yourself with liars that pampered you with beautiful lies and you will never get out of any vacious cycle. Good words and advices often sounds most unplesant.

Learn to care is learn to trust, learn to support, learn to understand, learn to treasure and learn to give willingly.That is the basic requirements of a caring and helpful person who don’t use their eyes to see, ears to hear, first impressions to jurdge. Use your mind to understand, use your heart to sense and sees and use your soul to feel.

Hope you find your next man soon or at least some truthful sincere friends.